John Latt an old school chum wrote on facebook “everybody has 3OO friends or more on facebook, but when it comes down to needing a friend how many would actually be there? i guarantee not even 15 friends will like this. ‘like’ this status if you’d be there for me. set this as your status and see who would be there for you..”
Actually John, I don’t have 300 friends on facebook. But I have reconnected at least partially with people from my family who I haven’t seen in a long time, stay in touch with people I haven’t seen since high school like you, and I believe it depends on your use.
Now to your question given our propensity to stay in touch in the first place, it was years before I reached out to you on facebook, and you could not quite place me, would I be there for you? Sure, I just think there are people you kept closer who might answer the call first, and there is nothing wrong with that. I suppose I am not as dismissive of facebook friends as the tendency might be. People whine about it I think because they are getting bored with it. It doesn’t do anything, like a child with a toy that they wanted all year a few days after Christmas.
Depends on the person whether they put it away for a while and revisit it, re purpose or somehow put it in perspective. My list I think is less than one hundred and I believe I met everyone and interacted with them years ago and when I ‘friended’ them on facebook. I get bored with it too, but do check it every day to see whats up. Sometimes I make long winded comments too.